New Interview up at the Spanking Spot

Tuesday, April 10th, 2007 | Spank News | No Comments

Mr. Brushstrokes was kind enough to do an interview on me!

Tuesday, April 10, 2007

The Spanking Spotlight: Amber (Owner, Operator and Spankee of Spanked Amber)

Age: 30
Height: 5”6
Bust: 36B
Waist: 25
Hips :37
Weight: 119LBS.
Hair color : Red
Eye color : Amber
Birthday : 8/6/76
Hometown : Chico, CA
Relationship Status: Attached

As I might have mentioned before I am a complete sucker for Redheads. I mean I don’t care if your 400 pounds with hairy moles all over your face, If your a redhead I just sit there and drool. That being said our next guest on the Spanking Spotlight by far does not resemble the above description.

Dear Reader I am not kidding when I say that when Amber sent me a link to her website for the review. I literally just sat there and stared at the home page for a good 10 minutes. Now in the process of writing this blog I have had the privilege of interviewing many beautiful women but none have left me speechless with her beauty as our next guest has done. My Friends, Please Welcome Amber.

Amber, Can you tell me the story on how you got started SpankAmber and had you been spanked before you started the site?
I was spanked as a child up until age 12 when my parents divorced. I grew up in a very strict Jehovah’s Witness household and had the belt used on me by my father often. My mother occasionally would spank me otk with her hand. My father would always use the belt and would make me wait bent over my canopy bed with my pants down. Then 3 years ago, .I was bored to death as an administrative assistant. I always loved being in front of the camera, started taking acting classes, and had done commercial modeling when I was 11, etc. I love pinups and Bettie Page. I saw a girl that had a modern day website with her all dolled up like a 40′s pinup, the most she did was get nude. On her site, it said she had over 900 members. I thought could I make that just from being nude? So I went to find a photographer to shoot me in that style. When I arrived he had other ideas in mind. he tied me up and blindfolded me and took some black and white shots. I had never been tied up before in my life and thought about that day often. I told the photographer my ideas of my own website, he said he could help me and had some web design knowledge etc from his own site. So we scheduled a second shoot. I was really into Bettie Page so I brought a bullwhip I found on eBay and some fur handcuffs. I thought they would just be props. Maybe me being the dominant one. Next thing I know I’m naked in nothing but my crotchless fishnet body suit, which had the butt cut out and being tied up with my bottom up in the air. Next thing I know he brings out a paddle. He says he’s into creating red bottoms with the paddle to add a little mystique to the images. I said OK. For the next 4 hours off and on I was paddled very hard. I’ll never forget that first sting. I felt a warm tingly sensation and it went right between my legs and created very intense pangs. I tried not to react like I liked it. I felt alive for the first time in my entire life. It was like a light bulb had gone off and said this is what you’ve been wanting your whole life. After that day I was obsessed with being spanked. I wanted more and more. I asked my current boyfriend if he would do it. He would not even try, he was against hitting women. I said you’re not hitting me, I want you to spank me! But he wouldn’t. So I decided to start a spank site with my photographer, he thought I had something. I had the best time coming up with scenarios, etc. The photographer and I both had a lot to learn technically first. He got a video camera and started filming me. Through out time I left the boyfriend that wouldn’t spank me and fell in love with my photographer/filmer/editor/musician/webmaster/partner. We had some problems with hiring a web designer who lied to us about what he could do and lost some $$$, and was unable to launch the site. Also, at that time we hadn’t fig’d out the video thing so the site would only offer stills and we wanted more. So throughout the last couple years we’d been toying with the idea of launching the site. We make what we want to see anyway’s and were watching the movies and then in the end of Feb of this year we decided to launch it! We’d be making these movies and I’d be getting the same spankings you see whether or not we decided to launch the site. I’m obsessed with being spanked. I also love the idea of men and women watching our films and being aroused. it’s a great creative outlet for me and gives me a way to live out my fantasies! So only my real father and my current spanker have ever spanked me. I’ve never been a spank model for anyone else.

From our pre-Interview you mentioned that your boyfriend administers the spanking. How often are you naughty enough to warrant one?
Well he’s definitely not a boy! I love being naughty. I walk around the house in the sheerest nothings of pajamas and leggings and short shorts and make sure to wiggle when I walk and taunt him and beg for spankings constantly. I get spanked several times a day actually. But now we save the big ones that may leave marks for once a week. That way I have a week to heal if there are any marks, and can keep up with our weekly updates.

Amber, I’ve seen some of some of the spanking you get. A couple of spankings look like your almost about to lose it. Are they as painful as they appear on film?
I really love all of my spankings. Some do get pretty intense, but I need it really hard and fast to cry. I have a very high pain tolerance. The occasions when I do cry it’s a great release for me. My favorite is the very first couple of swats, the way it stings! I really am excited after my spanking with my bottom on fire and tingly.

You work a regular job in addition to running this site, Do you find it difficult to sit down at work after a shoot?
After the last hairbrush scene it was. I needed a pillow! I like being a little sore after because then I think about it over and over again and wonder when my next spanking will be. But I do freelance makeup/hair and commercial print modeling and acting so most of the work I do is on the site. Replying to emails, updating my blog, editing pictures, responding to interviews!

You may or may not be doing some shoots with Dallas, tell us how that came about?
Dallas has been so very very kind and given me so much advice. You’ll just have to wait and see!

It looks like you two film straight from beginning to end with no breaks. Has there ever been a time you had to stop the shooting because of the intensity of the spanking? Can you tell me about it?
No, never, except when a firealarm goes off! And not because of my bottom LOL! Seriously though, because my spanker is also the filmer we have one take! I like watching the film afterwards and noticing things I did I wasn’t even aware of. I really love to get lost in my spanking and let myself be free with reactions, etc.

Is there anything you do to prepare yourself before a scene?
Lunges and squats and lotion up the bod! The anticipation is one of my favorite things. Knowing I’m going to really get it good on Tues, or whatever day it is has me antsy all week!

Can you tell us the most embarrassing thing that has happened to you on the shoot.
When my landlord is downstairs! I’m really lucky because it’s just my spanker and I on set so I’m not embarrassed at all. I love showing the camera my bottom especially after it’s been spanked!

What is your favorite implement ?
I love the hand because it’s more intimate, but the leather paddle and leather belt because my daddy used the leather belt and it has more bite to it. I love the way the paddle marks my bottom perfectly rouging it, and the sting is amazingly wonderful! I get excited just writing about them!

What is your least favorite implement?
The razor strap! It really has a sharp heavy sting to it. It really makes me jump and clench my cheeks.

What is your favorite spanking position and least if you have one.
I love otk of course, and on my knees on the couch, anything where my bottom is on full display. I like to be comfortable everywhere else so I can focus on my spanking. I hate it when we use a chair that has arms and it digs into my hip bone or something, that’s never good.

Believe it or not I do have some female readers, Can you give any advice to any women thinking about getting into the industry?
Well I have only worked with my spanker, never anyone else in the industry. I have been getting some offers though and all I would say is stay true to yourself and find out what you want to do and don’t let others persuade you. Oh and get spanked as often as you can of course!

Do you have any special projects in the works?
We are in the process of producing our first DVD and offering Pay Per View Downloads.

Do you watch any other spanking models? Do you admire one in particular?
I love Sierra! She’s just beautiful and I think her dialogue comes off very real. Being an actress I’m a stickler for good truthful scenes which I think she does well.

Now, did your Boyfriend know you were a spanko before you started dating him How did you explain it to him?
I think I answered that at the beginning. He turned me into a full on SPANKO!

Most people in the business say that their interest in spanking started at a very early age. Is this true for you as well?
Well since I was being spanked yes. I did love the attention my bottom received but it was never sexual. I’d never really seen it anywhere until that first photo shoot when he paddled me and the rest is history!

Has your family and friends been supportive in your movie career?
My mother and stepfather know that I enjoy being spanked privately and that I do nude modeling. I have not yet told them about my site yet. They’d be cool with it though. They just came up for a visit and my step dad slapped my butt and said you have such a nice ass! I almost said, then why didn’t you ever take me over your knee???

So what’s in the future for Amber the Spanked Redhead.
Well, getting all the images in the members section 1500px available to be downloaded to a disc. Adding screengrabs from the movies. And we’re seeing if we might add some new gals to the site spanking me, or me spanking them or both! You’ll have to wait and see. You’re comment about one girl getting boring really got me thinking!

Can you share some of your secrets tricks you use to get your lovely bottom back into shape after a good thrashing?
Mr. Happy who is a happyface gel pack that you keep in the freezer and I just ordered Arnica after reading some of the other gals interviews! And of course working out so all the meat stays in the right places!

What would you like people to know about your as a person rather then a spanking movie star.
Spanking movie star? Moi? Flattery will get you everywhere. I want people to know that I am truly a naughty bratty girl who deserves every single one of my spankings and love every minute of it!

Oh one last thing, Is your hair naturally red? Sorry I have to ask. Its beautiful.
I’m 100 percent natural!!! Thank you very much.

Amber and I have been chatting for a bit to set this up and trading idea advice for her website. I can truly say that she is as beautiful inside as out. You can find her at Spanked Amber

Brushstrokes

Physiology of Erotic Spanking and the Pain/Pleasure Phenomenon

Sunday, April 8th, 2007 | Spank News | No Comments

I found this article and thought no wonder!!!

Physiology of Erotic Spanking and the Pain/Pleasure Phenomenon

Endorphins are peptides (amino acid chains) released by the brain, in response to pain and stress.  They are morphine-like compounds. The brain triggers the release endorphins when a stimulus is interpreted as pain, in order to raise the pain threshold and make the pain more tolerable.  With erotic spanking, there is an additional ingredient; sexual arousal.  Because of this, and because of a specific physiological cycle, it is important to have a slow and gradual warm up.

First, the physiological cycle…  The psychological build up to the spanking (anticipation) is sexually arousing, in and of itself.  Being put over someone’s lap, perhaps having your bottom and back sensually stoked.  The commencement of the spanking, having your bottom bared as the gradual warm-up spanking continues.  The arousal slowly builds as the endorphins are gradually being released by the brain, triggered both by the erotic tension and the spanking, itself.  As the endorphin level in the bloodstream elevates, the pain threshold gradually increases.  Thus, the severity of the spanking can gradually increase and still be interpreted as pleasure.  This cycle continues….  Sexual arousal builds, more endorphins are released, pain threshold increases, spanking severity increases.  The spanking, still being interpreted as pleasure further increases sexual arousal, more endorphins are released, pain threshold increases, spanking severity increases.  And, etc……

This is a gradual process.  The top must be sensitive to the body language of the bottom, and not introduce too much severity too soon.  If the spanking starts out too severe, a large amount of endorphins will be released pre-maturely; before sufficient sexual arousal has built.  The pre-mature introduction of severe pain combined with the resultant endorphin release can totally quash sexual arousal and orgasm potential. This is why it is crucial to start light; with a slow warm up, gradually increasing in severity.  In order to accomplish this, the top must be sensitive to the body language of the bottom.  Many females are capable of a spontaneous orgasm during a spanking (with no direct sexual stimulation), if the top is sufficiently sensitive to body language, and integrates sensuality with the spanking.

Redheads are a minority too…

Saturday, April 7th, 2007 | Spank News | No Comments

  Growing up as a redhead I would constantly be stopped by older men and women telling me how beautiful my red hair was and where did I get it from. Neither my mother or my father, or brother had red hair, so people would joke that I was the milkman’s or mailman’s daughter. I was very shy. I learned to overcome that shyness since my father would bribe me with ice cream if I talked with 2-3 people on my own at our Jehovah’s Witness meetings.

  With my peers however it was different. Since natural redheads are only 2-3 percent of the world’s population they treated me as an outcast. Older men would stop me as a teenager and tell me how I was going to be a knockout when I was 18, all grown up. That just made me feel like what am I now? A mutant waiting to be transformed? I had a girlfiend who I thought was my best friend from age 13-16 say things to me like you might be pretty if you had a tan, or a different nose and taught me to hate my skin and my freckles. After swimming with her one day we jumped into the shower together and she pointed to my crotch and laughed and said “Oh my god! You have red hair down there and not very much!” (Now I know as a woman it’s pretty great not having alot of hair down there) Then she told everyone at our junior high school to call me fire crotch which they did. She would pants me at school to try and show the other kids so they’d laugh at me. They would all stand around me rubbing there hands together putting them near my crotch as if they were warming their hands near a fire. 

I hated school, especially summertime. This meant people would expect me to wear shorts. At the time noone wore capris or floodpants and the options were jeans/pants or short shorts. Whenever I wore shorts someone would always stop me in the hall and make a scene and say Owwww you’re hurting my eyes with those white legs! Get a tan would ya? I need to put my sunglasses on. I believed by bearing my skin I was somehow causing a discomfort to others. So I’d always try to cover myself up somewhat. But I grew up in Chico, CA where it would be 109 in the summer, so I didn’t have many options. Our summers would revolve around being at the river and going swimming which I always dreaded. I tried so hard to tan. But I would just burn and get freckles. Then i’d get made fun of for having freckles and friend would talk me into trying to cover them up with makeup. Then when I went swimming  I’d be so afraid to go underwater because the makeup would come off my face and people would see my freckles and laugh again. My supposed best friend would splash me purposely because she knew of my insecurity.  Once in class as a sophomore in highschool, an unpopular overweight boy says to me God, I never realized how white you are and how many freckles you have. I walked out the class to the bathroom and I cried. I even tried self tanner which just streaked my legs and people joked and called me nicotan because it looked like the color of nicotine. I never had any boyfriends all through junior high and high school. I used to cry myself to sleep at night because I thought I was so ugly.

One summer my girlfriend and I were with her step dad for a weekend on a boat. She told me I’d get a better tan if I put no suntan lotion or anything on. When I came home my mom saw me and my face had swollen up. I had to go to the hospital. I had 2nd degree burns and sun poisoning. Then blisters developed and skin peeling which left my skin discolored. I was so afraid my skin would never go back to normal again. Once it did I was so happy that I always wore sunscreen. I decided to stay out of the sun and protect and take care of the skin I had.

I also would be made fun of because of my butt and thighs. Peers thought it was a little big so I would always cover it with men’s boxers over my bikini bottoms. And of course my breasts were never big by any standards. Everyone at that time wanted the blonde tan beautiful beach bunny or exotic beauty. I had two boyfriends in my 20′s which lasted a long time. The first tried to get me to go to a tanning salon and use self tanner, but I thought what about my face?  And when you use selftanner the tan is gone  when you shave your legs. I love smooth skin so I never could get it right, the tan would be gone and wouldn’t match my face. The second boyfriend would ask me to keep my makeup on when in bed with him and have me put it on first thing in the morning. He also told me how disappointed he was with my breast size because I wore padded bras and he thought they were going to be bigger.

Finally I meant a man who loves me for me. He showed me art I’d never seen before of redhead pre-Raphaelite beauties with alabaster skin and pale eyelids. A man, who worships my bottom and brings out my inner beauty. I feel that with this website I can express myself freely. I feel comfortable for the first time in my life with my body and like who I am even though I know I’m far from perfect. I focus on inner health and take care of my skin and excercise and eat right. I think every women as long as they are healthy physically and mentally is beautiful in their own way. There are so many wonderful mixes of female beauty in all shapes, sizes and colors.

I love teasing the camera and dressing up in silk stockings and dancing and being in touch with my sensuality. I love the way my skin feels with soft fabrics and then the sting of a belt coming down across my cheeks. This website has enabled me to come out of my shell and share a sexy side of myself that needed to come out.

Nothing makes me feel more loved than the sting of my lover’s belt, hand, etc. on my bottom. It makes me feel truly alive… And I deserve it for having such a naughty spanking site….

Below are some fo my favorite redhead art. This first picture is my self portrait ode to Marilyn!

I need new Spanking Implements

Thursday, April 5th, 2007 | Spank News | No Comments

I’ve used up all of my implements in my movies and I want more. I’ve contacted 3 companies to see if they’d be interested in letting me try out their products in exchange for a review and some pics/ video clips. But they don’t respond back! I’m broke and need some new toys baaaaaaaaad. I lost my little crop which I love for being spanked in a very naughty place! If anyone is interested in seeing me spanked with a particular toy you can email me and I’ll give you my PO and make a film of it and post it in my members area/ What should I be spanked with next.?  My bottom is still healing, but I’m craving a spanking soooo bad right now.

As Sierra (she is such a beautiful woman!) mentioned, we may be working on a special project together which I am very excited about.

Here’s a preview of my newest photo gallery I added! I have high res photos now available to download zip 1500pixels. Of course in the members area you get to see my real flower. LOL!

ENDART

Tuesday, April 3rd, 2007 | Spank News | No Comments

http://www.endart.com/
Look what I found in my inbox this morning! I’m very excited! I am a big fan of his work and am so honored that he drew me!

Also I have an interview I did up and a new review. Thanks so much to Chief for taking the time to do such a detailed review and choose the pics, etc. I can tell he put a great deal of work into it. I really appreciate his help. i don’t even have an affiliates program in place and he did this for me!

my review

http://spankingblogg.com/blogg/profiles/amber/index.htm

my interview

http://spankingblogg.com/?p=90

Freedom of Speech

Monday, April 2nd, 2007 | Spank News | No Comments

I’m irritated and frustrated right now. As I’m doing an interview I’m told by a friend in the spank biz who’s helping me out that I can’t talk about what really happened to me growing up in regards to my spankings.  I’m not talking about anything sexual at all, just the honest truth about what happened in my household. So I have to say Auntie or Uncle or make something up! How stupid is that? It’s my real life story and I want to keep it real! I’d rather say nothing than make it up! And to be careful because if I do my merchant company could make things difficult for me. Ugggggggggghhhhhhhhh!

Re: the hairbrush movie we made on Sat night. I have to say I will never ever look at that hairbrush the same. It really had a bite to it and left some marks. I had a art nude workshop to do the day after and the 4 photographers said Amber, however did you happen to get two perfectly marked bruises? I said Guess! They said well Sat was national Flagellation day! LOL!  Here’s some pics of me this morning in my new pjs! It looks worse than it was, but I deserved every bit of it

Hair Brush Paddling Shoot

Sunday, April 1st, 2007 | Spank News | No Comments

I got my real hairbrush paddling last night. I can barely sit down today! I had to put ice on it after. It was so much fun and I’ll be uploading the movie and pics to my members area in the next couple of weeks!